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I’m leaving this morning to spend Labor Day weekend in Seattle with my friend Mindy who has lived there for several years now.  I visited a couple of years ago, we did a whole bunch of touristy stuff + I had a fine ‘ole time. 

Please observe:

I CAN’T WAIT to get there today!  Happy Labor Day, everyone!  Have fun + make it one to remember.  :)

xx, L

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Attention I have two more books to add to your summer reading list

Sloane Crosley (pictured below) is one of my favorite young authors/ girl crush.  I just adore her.

As I’ve mentioned in previous posts, Sloane wrote a book I’m obsessed with: I Was Told There’d Be Cake.  If you haven’t read this book, you absolutely must!  She’s hysterical – in a very David Sedaris-manner.  It’s a excellent poolside book, too, because the essays are incredibly engaging and easy to get through so you can read-dip in the water-read-talk on the phone-read-dip again-read-check out lifeguards-read-drink a cocktail-read-FINISH w/o feeling like you are having trouble keeping track of what you’re reading.

If you’ve already read I Was Told and you are looking for some more of Sloane’s brilliance, you are IN LUCK b/c she’s recently released her new book, How Did You Get This Number.  I can’t wait to read it!  (Thanks for the heads up, Mindy, and many, many congrats on graduating from law school last week!  xx)

Here’s the Q+DD on How Did You Get This Number:

Nine thoughtful, unfussy essays by the author of the collection I Was Told There’d Be Cake navigate around illusions of youth in the hope that by young adulthood they’ll all add up to happiness.  The account of Crosley’s footloose adventure to Lisbon on the eve of her 30th birthday starts things off in rollicking fashion in Show Me on the Doll: without proficient language skills, getting hopelessly lost in the labyrinth of Bairro Alto, and panicking in front of the myriad QVC channels offered by her hotel, Crosley recognizes that Lisbon was a place with a painfully disproportionate self-reflection-to-experience ratio.  There is the requisite essay about moving to New York and replacing her anorexic-kleptomaniac roommate with a more acceptable living arrangement: in Crosley’s case, delineated in Take a Stab at It, she is interviewed by the creepily disembodied current occupier of a famous former brothel on the Bowery, McGurk’s Suicide Hall.  As well, Crosley delivers witty, syncopated takes on visiting Alaska and Paris, and finding much consolation from a two-timing heartbreak in New York by buying stolen items from her upholstery guy, Daryl, who found them fallen Off the Back of a Truck, as the delightful last selection is titled.  These essays are fresh, funny, and eager to be loved.  (Publisher’s Weekly)

If Sloane isn’t quite your cup of tea - I have something else for you from another one of my favorite Jewish funny ladies…Ms. Sarah Silverman, herself.

Caveat: I haven’t read it yet, but Amy told me that she absolutely cannot put it down.  Amy is brilliant.  She knows everything.  Trust Amy.

Here’s the Q+DD on The Bedwetter:

Demonstrating that her penchant for swearing began at an early age, comedian Silverman begins her hilarious memoir by describing how, at age three, she gleefully responded to her grandmother’s offer of brownies with shove ‘em up your tush.  Growing up in New Hampshire (where cows are well done and Jews are rare), Silverman naturally gravitated toward performing and moved to New York, where she attended and eventually dropped out of New York University to pursue a standup comedy career.  Mixing show business moments (she wrote for Saturday Night Live for one season, but none of her sketches made it past dress rehearsal) with stories of her childhood and adolescence (punctuated by a persistent bedwetting problem), Silverman never shies away from poking fun at her own expense.  Though she’s best known for sexually explicit jokes, Silverman is able to address more serious subjects in the book without losing her edge, particularly her teenage struggle with depression and that her often abrasive public persona allowed her to say what she didn’t mean, even preach the opposite of what she believed…. It was a funny way of being sincere.  (Publisher’s Weekly)

I can safely say that neither of these books will likely be nominated for a Pulitzer anytime soon, but they will certainly make you think, giggle + they are perfect for the beach/ pool. 

Enjoy!  :)

xx, L

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I’m a martini drinker.

me + martini

But, I have three critical martini-related rules. 

(Please take note if you plan on ever ordering me a drink..)

Rule #1:  Under no circumstance do I want olives anywhere in or around my drink.  Ick!  HATE olives.  It’s a shame, too, because olives adore me…

Rule #2:  I want to be able to taste the vodka in my martini.  I am an adult – I am not 19 years old and I don’t want to be consuming mostly liqueur.  Thank you very much!  (A few too many nights at Carlos + Charlies in Puerto Vallarta put me off of sweet drinks fo’ life…)


Rule #3:  If I am drinking a martini, I’m going to be seated.  The martini glass is an incredibly poorly designed alcohol vehicle.  Further, I wear heels when I go out – but I am not great in them.  I’m telling you, I know my limitations, you do not want to be anywhere near me when I have a martini glass in my hand and I’m standing up.  I spill them when I’m sitting down!  So please bring the drink to me at a table and we won’t have to worry about our clothes making an immediate dry cleaning trip in the morning.  :)

Moving on…

I love Holeman + Finch.  (This all ties together, I promise.)  I just love it.  The food is excellent, the scene is superb and I really like the staff.  They are hipster w/o the grease + cut off jean shorts.  And, they are super friendly and attentive.  The high boys in the bar are my favorite location at Holeman to plop down + have a few drinks and small plates. 

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So, I’m there on Friday w/ EZ, Ms. Meri + Loren (not Lauren) and we’re ordering our second round of drinks when our server informs me that my go-to-Gimlet is kind of a boring order.  I quickly assess him and realize that (1) he is wearing skinny jeans (funny + appropriate hipster-waiter attire, which I applaud) and that (2) I’m fairly certain he looks like he knows what he is talking about, so instead of taking offense – I ask for his expert advice.  I made sure he was clear re. my three martini-related rules and he said he’d run with it.  A few minutes later as we were all digging into the Holeman 10:00 p.m. burger that we’d patiently been waiting for since 8:00 p.m., our server came back to the table with my drink.  BIG problem.  He tells me there’s gin in it.  Gin??  I don’t drink GIN.  I drink VODKA!  Needless to say, I’m incredibly skeptical…

However, all it took was one magical sip to win me over.  I like gin!  Who would have thought?!

certainly not us...

I mean it when I say that this was the best drink I’ve had in my life.  It was like flying.  Like a day at the beach.  Like winning a new car on The Price is Right!!  

"one dollar, bob!"

The drink was an AVIATIONSayonara, Gimlet, you’ve officially been replaced…

behold its majesty

My old partner in crime, Mindy, is in town and last night we cooked dinner for her family, and then scooted over to Ormsby’s.  We were there for one drink + a meet up w/ the famous FB, when I heard the Aviation summoning me from Holeman.  So, at 11:00 p.m. on a Monday night we headed to Holeman for a late night burger + a few Aviations.  I’m addicted. 

It really is the most amazing drink.  You don’t taste the gin too much, it’s not too sweet at all and it’s surprisingly refreshing.   (“it’s magically delicious!”)

mindy + me + martini = perfection. (math is fun!)

You have to try an Aviation immediately.  Order it @ Holeman tonight.  Seriously!  Or, learn how to make it yourself + impress your friends:

Ingredients:

2 oz of Gin
1/4 oz Maraschino Liqueur
1/2 oz Fresh Lemon Juice
Dash of Creme de Violette (optional)
Flamed Lemon Peel for Garnish (optional)

Directions:

Pour ingredients into a cocktail shaker filled w/ ice
Shake shake shake…
Strain into a chilled cocktail glass
Garnish
Sip + Enjoy! :)

How to Make an Aviation Video: http://bit.ly/93rnBF

If this isn’t love, I don’t know what is.

xx, L

Holeman & Finch Public House
2277 Peachtree Road NE Ste. B
Atlanta, GA  30309
404.948.1175
www.holeman-finch.com

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I absolutely love to read.  To me, there is nothing better than spending a lazy Sunday morning curled up on a comfortable couch with a warm blanket and a new book.  I grew up reading everything I could get my hands on – Highlights magazines, R.L. Stine and Matt Christopher books, the Dallas Morning News, my parent’s Reader’s Digests…  My favorite store in the world is still Half Price Books (www.halfpricebooks.com) near NorthPark Mall in Dallas (love!). 

When I switched careers a few years ago, I became good friends with a colleague who had previously participated in the Teach for America program in Atlanta.  Her stories absolutely blew my mind, particularly regarding how many of her students could not read.  Public schools were just fine in North Dallas – I had no idea how terrible some of them are here and throughout neighboring states.  It was truly shocking to hear her speak about her classroom experiences at a local Fulton County elementary school.

I was motivated to do something, but my career path could not be any further away from education.  Since literacy has always been a hot button issue for me, I was thrilled to hear that I could volunteer through my company for the Everybody Wins! Power Lunch Reading Program at a local elementary school near the Georgia Dome.  I’ve now been a Reading Mentor for third graders for three years running.  I think Everybody Wins! is an excellent organization with an important mission – and more people should know about it.  So, here we go…  

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Here’s the Q+DD on Everybody Wins!:

Everybody Wins! Atlanta, a local affiliate of the Everybody Wins! national non-profit organization (find a program in your city: http://bit.ly/4lrsV6), is dedicated to promoting children’s literacy through shared reading experiences with caring individuals.  Their mission is to reach students while they are young, stimulate a love for reading and develop the reading skills needed to succeed in school and in life.  Studies have shown that the single most important activity required for building eventual success in reading is reading aloud to children.  Everybody Wins! Power Lunch pairs students who are at-risk for academic failure with volunteers from businesses and organizations to read together one-on-one each week during the school year.  Simply reading with the same student all year, a child experiences the joy of reading, as well as the remarkable benefits of sustained, individual attention by a caring adult.  These lunchtime experiences are proven to improve children’s attitudes toward and interest in reading.

The program operates in Title 1 schools at no cost to participating schools and students.  EW! recruits and trains volunteers to be Power Lunch Reading Mentors and manages program administration.  Everybody Wins! Atlanta seeks to serve a geographically, culturally and socio-economically diverse population, but primarily targets at-risk children whose needs are the greatest.  

What Is Power Lunch?

Power Lunch is a lunchtime literacy and mentoring program in which elementary school students are matched one-on-one with caring volunteers.  Volunteer mentors promote reading for pleasure by reading aloud with the students and providing positive support and encouragement as an informal mentor.

Primary Objectives of Power Lunch Are:

- Improve student’s interest in and attitudes toward reading.
- Advance their reading-related skills (e.g. vocabulary, listening and comprehension).
- Expand children’s opportunities for academic success.
- Build children’s self-esteem and confidence.

By engaging volunteers in this simple activity, Everybody Wins! Atlanta helps bridge the literacy gap one mentor, one child, one book at a time.

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How Power Lunch Works:

- Once a week (or every other week if two people volunteer as a team), volunteers travel to a nearby elementary school, are welcomed by an EW! staff School Coordinator and meet their students in a designated area.
- Students and Reading Mentors then choose a book from the EW! book cart and go to a specified reading area.
- Volunteers commit to Power Lunch for one school year, with the program starting at the end of September and ending the first week of May. 
- Students are identified by their teachers based on academic performance, English spoken as a second languahe or someone who could benefit from a positive, consistent mentoring experience.

How Do I Get Started?

- Visit the www.everybodywins.org website to check a list of participating companies to see if your organization is already a partner.  If it is, you simply complete a Reading Partner Application online and send it in.  EW! will quickly match you with a student.
- If your organization is not listed, let the EW! team know.  You can help introduce your organization to Everybody Wins!  They will respond quickly to help make Power Lunch a part of your week.
- Power Lunch volunteers attend an Orientation Session, usually held at the beginning of the new school year in the fall.  These orientations supply you with the training and information that you need to get started as a Reading Mentor.  From there, you will be matched with a student and your Power Lunch experience begins.

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If you are looking for a mentoring or volunteer opportunity, I strongly suggest getting involved with Everybody Wins!  Please contact Terri Beck, Executive Director, at 404.943.0404 or tbeck@everybodywinsatlanta.org for more information.

As Princeton says in Avenue Q, “helping other people out makes you feel FANTASTIC!”

Princeton - Ave. Q

xx, L

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…for me to request that someone starts this in Atlanta, immediately.  I don’t want - I need this now.  I just knew something was missing from my life…

Hipster Dance Class in Silver Lake (photo credit: nytimes.com)

Hipster Dance Class in Silver Lake (photo credit: nytimes.com)

Here’s the Deets:
NY TIMES:  A Los Angeles Dance Class With A Retro Dress Code
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/13/fashion/13fitness.html?_r=1&ref=nutrition

Here’s an Excerpt: 
“Around 11:40 a.m. every Sunday, they arrive at Foresight Studios, a rehearsal and performance space in the heart of Silver Lake, a hipster neighborhood in Los Angeles. They wear pink leg warmers, sparkly headbands and the type of tiny shorts not seen since Richard Simmons felt the burn in them in the 1980s. They are here for Sweaty Sundays, a dance class taught by Ryan Heffington, a choreographer, performance artist and designer with a soft spot for Lycra and bright pastels.  Here, members of this creative class — artists, photographers, fashion designers and screenwriters — dance off the previous night’s excesses to a soundtrack of indie rock, techno, and 1980s new wave hits. And they do it while looking fabulous in Jane Fonda leg warmers and belted leotards.  “It’s kind of an American Apparel ad come to life,” said Terence McFarland, 40, the executive director of the Los Angeles Stage Alliance, who is a regular.” 

I mean, that is so me it isn’t even funny.

Sadly, I don’t have any time to start this on my own, so I need to entrust this important undertaking to one of our awesome Q+DD readers.  I am accepting applications for awesomeness – please e-mail at thequickanddirtydirty@gmail.com :)

All you need to apply:

(1)  suggestions for warehouse or funky dance space/ location

Check out Foresight Studios, where Sweaty Sundays are held in L.A. : http://www.foresight-studios.com/  P.S. Rumor has it that Princess Brit practices there when she is in the Sunny.  Love!

(2)  some sweet moves…

Every day is Van Damme Friday!

Every day is Van Damme Friday!

(3)  80′s/ American Apparel/ hipster clothes you can flail around in for hours

Mindy & Dave are PREFECTLY attired!

Mindy and Dave are PEFFECTLY attired!

(4)  to feel nostalgic reading this:

Hipster (defined):  Listens to bands that you have never heard of. Has hairstyle that can only be described as “complicated.” (Most likely achieved by a minimum of one week not washing it.) Probably tattooed. Maybe gay. Definitely cooler than you. Reads Black Book, Nylon, and the Styles section of the New York Times. Drinks Pabst Blue Ribbon. Often. Complains. Always denies being a hipster. Hates the word. Probably living off parents money – and spends a great deal of it to look like they don’t have any. Has friends and/or self cut hair. Dyes it frequently (black, white-blonde, etc. and until scalp bleeds). Has a closet full of clothing but usually wears same three things OVER AND OVER (most likely very tight black pants, scarf, and ironic tee-shirt). Chips off nail polish artfully after $50 manicure. Addicted to coffee and cigarettes. Claims to be in a band. Rehearsals consist of choosing outfits for next show and drinking PBR. Always on the list. (www.urbandictionary.com)

(4)  moustache optional - but strongly encouraged…

Sheer awesomeness

sheer awesomeness

yessss

yessss!

And, by way of payment, I promise to be your very best friend and dance-buddy fo’ life.

Thanks in advance!

xx, L

 

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